. >>> dee ann hayward is one of the missing here in joplin. her son graduated from high school on sunday. she was on her way to pick up food for the graduation party when the tornado hit. her car was found, badly damaged, she was not in it. the family is obviously desperate to find her. here's what her sister, patty, told john king earlier. >> she counseled teenage girls, pregnant girls, runaway girls, taught sunday school and it just kills me that somebody that good -- i know there is a million other families out there -- but it kills me that somebody that good, something that bad would happen to them. >> dee ann's kids, christina, caleb and robert hayward join me now. how are you guys holding up? >> much better. just staying strong until we can find her. >> you've been searching everywhere, right? >> yeah. all around, even in different states. >> different states? >> yeah. we heard they can be as far as like st. louis or kansas city or anywhere. >> what kind of help have you had searching? >> lots of people on facebook, churches and stuff li