joining us now is delano lewis, the former ambassador to south africa.r joining us, ambassador. >> thank you. good to be here. >> let's start with the personal. you're going to meet with nelson mandela. you're in a rush. you leave your family in the car, go inside to take care of business first. you realize your family is in the car and he tells you -- >> well, he says, how is the family? i said, the family is fine. as a matter of fact, my wife and sister-in-law and two grandsons are in the car. he said in the car? he said bring them in. so he came, asked for them to come in and we were in the foyer of his office in his home and he met my grandsons, my sister-in-law and my spouse. it was a wonderful, wonderful time. >> i this i a beautiful corollary on that story that gives a sense of how nelson mandela knew who he was, knew what he represented. is it true he said to you, bring your family in, let them know that nelson mandela thinks that you are an important man? >> yes. he was very, very gracious. he looked at mayan grad sons, one 11, one 13, first tim