then jonathan them called me to do -- demme called me to do "philadelphia." ishi bstablishing a bridge between the countries. then something happened. i met my wife. i decided to me tome america, because she came with two kids and they had fathers in the united states. i did not have kids from my first marriage, so it was clear i was the one who would have to move. that is why i live here. tavis: i am really curious in this story about the enterprising young man who was bringing coffee into the room, who had the presence of mind to say, "let me represent you." >> he is a huge agent now. tavis: of course he is a huge agent now. >> he represented me and people like tom cruise, deniro. he became not only a financial -- a talent agent, but a financial agent who put packages together. he almost saved, brought an incredible amount of money, too dreamworks. tavis: that is a great story. that guy was bringing copy to the room. >> this is the story of america. people like that. tavis: you mentioned your wife. what is the secret, if there is one for you, at least, of m