we have to figure out a better way of dealing it that tennessee charlie sheen and denise richards. talks about mammals, insect, followed by a sensible conclusion. there aren't no bad guys, just two people. both are actually partners in each other's spiritual progress, animosity dissolves. it's only under these circumstances that loving co-parenting can happen. d deep deepakchopra is not supporting conscious uncoupling. >> it's still a failure. what it's saying is two people came together, made a commitment and they weren't able to live up to that commitment because they were thinking only about themselves. >> reporter: but gwynn and chris was getting it a go. i would say chris martin has albums to sell and gwyneth has her own brand of perfection to maintain. >> neither one of them benefits from controversial press. i think this is probably the beginning and maybe the end of this divorce story. >> hert mills and paul mccartney. that was one of the nastiest of all time. liza minnelli and david guest. will this will alec baldwin and kim basinger? not a chance. >> reporter: could they

it's a constructive, respectful and private alternative to, let's say, the charlie sheen and denise richardsce rate at 50% and climbing, maybe we should all read this essay posted by paltrow written by two relationship therapists who proclaim it's conscious uncoupling that prevents families from being broken by divorce. they say we're now just living too long. life expectancy was under 50 in 1900, and now it's up around 80, and we just weren't designed to be married that long. as paltrow told me just a few months ago -- >> it's not easy to be married for ten years. >> reporter: apparently ten years was enough. the couple said in their splitsville statement, "while we love each other very much, we will remain separate. we are, however, and always will be a family and in many ways we are closer than we have ever been." >> i felt actual sincerity in the message. will this be alec baldwin and kim basinger? there is not a chance. >> reporter: every time we've seen paltrow and martin together recently while they were working at the end of their relationship, i must say, they did look rather happy.