and for derino, it's a chance to repair his relationship with his children and grandchildren.ter he stabbed his wife several times during an argument in which he was drunk. derino's wife survived the attack but is not here today. >> translator: i have to tell you that one of the things that's so special about family day is the opportunity to see all of you with a child in your arms. to see this family connection is simply critical. >> derino only recently entered the alcohol treatment program run by orally helfan. >> translator: coming to terms with what you did isn't just about whether your family accepts you or doesn't accept you. the question is whether you're able to stop and tell they will, i acted in a violent manner. i stabbed, i drank. >> translator: but i already said that. >> translator: you think that everything is all right if they all sit next to you. >> they think that it is enough. okay, so the meeting, we can go on, everybody will love me and everything will be okay. >> helfan said derino's rehabilitation must begin with him accepting responsibility for his act