desha hargrove's husband drove buses for the city. desha hargrove: he wasn't just a bus driver.as a big guy, so he can come off as intimidating when you first meet him. he's 6'3", but he had a heart of gold. david: jason made headlines three days after the first covid death in michigan. a passenger coughed in the bus, and he livestreamed his distress. jason hargrove: some folks don't care, utterly don't give a f-- excuse my language, but that's how i feel rig about now. for a growna-- person in her late 50s, earl60s to sta on the f-- bus and cough 4, 5 times without covering up your mouth, and you know we're in the midst of a motherf-- crisis with this coronavirus, i am pissed the f-- off. desha: two days later, he was like, "hey. i just don't feel--i'm starting--i don't feel well." david: as he got sicker, he made two trips to the local hospital, sinai grace, but they wouldn't admit him. eventually, struggling to breathe, he asked his son to drive him in once more. desha: "i love you." he says, "i love you, too, baby." i said, "call me," so i waited, and i waited, and i waited