goto and her team see themselves as their big sister can suki and di suki don't want to be recognised the fact they've managed to leave their dreams to attend a consultation is already a major achievement. on a scale of one to 10 today i feel minus 3 it's hot and humid in a bad mood. when i'm in my room. how can i get out of here. and how can i stop being a burden on my parents. the parents of who could give more a often suffer as much as they do they often feel a strong sense of shame publicly admitting that their child has no job and no friends would be humiliating so they keep quiet often hiding them from their neighbors for example in this way they're complicit in maintaining their child's isolation it's a problem that set to become even more acute in the coming year. in japan we talk about the 850 problem. when the parents are 83rd children or 50. and the older the parents get the harder it is for them to look after their children. traditionally japanese culture emphasised conformity for people who feel different staying within their own 4 walls can seem like a safe option but th