diane and i are getting married. i mean, depending on what the courts say. >> right. right. well, i'd like to come. >> so that was mary-louise parkereen the miniseries. >> i didn't see that part of it, no. >> how did this all come to be. four years in the making. >> yes. >> real passion project for you? >> very much so. i mean i will never forget the day that i heard abc was interested in doing an lgbt history project. i mean, abc was the station i was allowed to watch unattended in my southern christian conservative home, right? it's the station that's always told family stories and i thought, oh, my goodness, this is finally a chance for me to be able to introduce my lgbt family to my southern family, and i figured it's about time. >> it's amazing. >> it is amazing and bragging on you a little bit, lance, you won an oscar for writing "milk." everybody, so, we've got some great writing chops here. >> my son last night said, he won an oscar? he looks awfully young to have won an oscar. >> yeah, agreed. agreed to your son. let's talk about roma guy, lesbian, social justice activist. what was it like for you to play her and to meet h