you have a problem, what do u doirst? what's theirst thing, lamont? stop, calm down, and thk. stop, calm down, and in why portant? if y're not calm, you might do something negative good. you're not ca yomado mething negative, and that may cause mo problems, and atwe don't want. how do y know you have a problem? what hapns your bo? ur pal stt swting. palms get sweaty. what ee happens? your heart beats fast. youreart beats fast. mee else.appens? cher merritt and her studen are viina six-step oblem-solving framework. this step-by-step technique based on a traffic-light model helps children learn to master their thoughts, feelings, and actions so they can handle social situations and pressures effectively. oncee know the problem, we c go to step thre what is stepee? what istep thr? shontae. set a positive goa t a positivel. wh ia ve goal? why do we want our goals to be positive? so you won't do something thatl hurt anybody. yodon't want to ht anyo. on we how weant th to end , what do we want to do next? ishatima. think of lots of solns. why not one?ant why not one?ishatima. y not