and judy and don reed were a good pair.'d get together when i'd go back do oklahoma city, my brother john and my brother david and my husband sometimes. the three boys would tell stories about what ornery kids they had abeen. we'd laugh and talk about our folks. and was a good man, a good man. we didn't agree on everything. he was a cranky republican. it was true. you, no matter how much we disagreed, we ended every phone conversation with, he'd say "i love you sis." and i'd say "i love you too, brother." and then he got sick. and this was in early 2020. he got pneumonia. and he went to the hospital. judy got him to the hospital. and they wanted to put him in the hospital, and then he started getting better, but he'd been weak because he'd been lying down for a long time. and so the question was, now remember, this is february 2020. we don't know what's around the corner, and he, he was sick, but he was getting much better, and it was time to be discharged from the hospital. and hit doctor said go to a rehab center, just a