. >> what did work and instantly, was her attraction to a guy named doug stewart. venus had a friend from work, jamie, who knew venus had a soft spot for guys in uniform in jamie's brother, doug, was a marine. >> we set up the first date. there were probably three or four of us couples. we went out to a movie. they hit it very well. >> so well the two had become inseparable. >> she was smart, she was articulate, she was beautiful. some people i guess would call it love at first sight and four days later, we were married. >> pretty fast. a lot of people would go on a second date before getting hitched. >> i think we made it to our second and that's about it. >> to say venus' parents were surprised by the turn of events was an understatement. >> she showed up and she was married and we were dumbfounded. >> all very sudden but dustin jasper, venus' older brother got along okay with his new brother-in-law. they both liked outdoorsy stuff. >> we went hunting and fishing together and we had a pretty good relationship. >> it was a year after their quickie wedding that doug