dr. carol o'brien developed what is now a 16-bed treatment facility, originally the program was only available to female sexual assault victims. what was your reaction when you heard that men were coming forward and saying it happened to them? >> i was like most people, kind of surprised by that. i really wanted to hear more. >> in 2003 the facility opened its doors to men. what did you learn from the men that joined your program? >> we learned that it takes a lot in order for a man to be willing to report the amount of shame or fear about the reaction of others is pretty profound. men are often worried that if they were sexually assaulted by another man and they're married, if they tell their wife, their wife will say you must be gay. >> i never talked about it with anyone until i checked into the v.a. the day i checked into the v.a., i broke down and cried. >> many of o'brien's patients are like this man dealing with very old wounds. he has received weeks of therapy after waiting 50 years to tell anyone about his assault. >> i was reclusive. i'd been married three times. i was becoming more