and john little, an attorney who handles many sexual abuse cases and dr mitch abrahams, a sports psychologist working with high performance olympic athletes. >> coach's push athletes to try harder. they yell and put you through workouts. at what point does hard core tough coaching become abusive? >> one of the things about being an elite athlete is you excel on your own, and it's having a balanced relationship between your coach and yourself. if you are in a dynamic, they are pushing. then you have lost your - the equality this that relationship. and then you create a dynamic that is dysfunctional, moving to the extremely abusive environment. >> talk about what the abusive environment is like for you? >> well, i mean for me the abuse was psychologically abusive, mentally abusive, and i had to deal with - my family, my father was an amazing man. he supported me as a swimmer. it was amazing. and to go to him with my - you know, like you're supposed to go to your personalities, with your pain and your hurt to help you through that, and you know to sort of have their way of helping you, don't qui