dr. ablow, what do you think? >> here's what i think.s from the outset, we're not looking to bully anyone. i'm reminded of the words of abraham lincoln, with malice towards none, but now is the time, martha, when we have to understand this issue. what's happening here? we have two women, raising a child, he's adopted, and he's come to believe that he, too, is female. that argues for a complete psychological evaluation, not just of the boy, but of his parents as well. to see whether psychological forces are at play here, to make him say such things. we need to do away with stigma and look at this as scientists and really understand what's happening, not make it a cultural debate, but a scientific one. martha: yeah, i meerntion dr. mccarry, this child has not started puberty, and to me the idea, when you think about what goes on in a child's body during these years, right, all of these natural things that are supposed to be evolving in your body, and then to make an arbitrary decision, and by arbitrary, i don't mean willy nilly, but a volu