dr. deborah gilboa. >> i love this. i have a 2 1/2-year-old, nearly three, and she is in a lot of activities. when do you decide when they're ready and what is age appropriate? >> the best age is when she says that looks so fun, can i do that? if she is three or four when she doesn't want to do it you can say you know, you said you wanted to do it we're going to stick to it. expose them to things. the more they do, the better. >> tiger's dad had a ball and said you hit it, on day two, you can hit two, and day three, you hit three. if you jam something at a kid, they could suddenly dislike it. sometimes they want to quit something. they like it in the beginning -- >> i was desperate to quit piano. >> if they make a commitment, say you sign up for soccer because your child says i want to be on the soccer team, you make a commitment to that team, i'm a believer of finishing out their commitment. they don't have to redo it or sign up for the next season, but finish what you started. >> i would say 10% of the time you have a

dr. deborah gilboa. >> i love this. activities. when do you decide when they're ready and what is age appropriate? >> the west way -- the best way to decide is when she says, oh, that was so fun, can i do it again? because if you get buy-in from her, when she's three or four when she doesn't want to do it, you can say, you know, you said you wanted to do it, we're going to stick to it. >> when they're little, you can expose them to things. stuff you may think she likes, she's not going to like. and the stuff they do like, keep encouraging it, the more the better. >> tiger's dad had a ball and said you hit it, on day two, you -- he made him wait to hit two. so sometimes a kid loves something. you jam it at them and suddenly they dislike it. is there ever a right time for a -- sometimes they like something, and then they want out. >> i was desperate to quit piano. and finally my mom was like, she has no talent and let me quit. >> if they make a commitment, say you sign up for soccer because your child says i want to be on the soccer