dr. jeff gardere. dr. ound about whether i could even tell you the title to the song, and ultimately we decided that we shouldn't. not that i don't want to not give you the news, but it would be giving such a bad example to say that word on the air. it is a horrible slur on women. >> all right. >> that's the title to the song. >> sure. >> the "f" word. s-h-i-t is in there. >> references to gays in a negative way. >> they call a man a faggot up a tree. you know what? i would kill someone that even said that word around the twins, to let them even hear such filthy talk as that. to have you child -- to teach your child to say that, to sing it? i mean, all of this was put in singing lyrics and then you saw the shot where the little boy is sitting on a commode and he is covered with fake excrement. i guess fake excrement. dr. gardere, help me out. >> what cost the price of fame. we have to look at richard heene, he's not just obsessed with being famous -- >> listen. i wasn't down on him to begin with. i thought

dr. jeff gardere. dr. bout whether i could even tell you the title to the song, and ultimately we decided that we shouldn't. not that i don't want to not give you the news, but it would be giving such a bad example to say that word on the air. it is a horrible slur on women. >> all right. >> that's the title to the song. >> sure. >> the "f" word. s-h-i-t is in there. >> references to gays are in there. >> i would not let my kids hear filthy talk like that. to have you child -- to teach your child to say that, to sing it? i mean, all of this was put in singing lyrics and then you saw the shot where the little boy is sitting on a commode and he is covered with fake excrement. i guess fake excrement. dr. gardere, help me out. >> what cost the price of fame. we look at richard heene, he's not just obsessed with being famous. >> listen. i wasn't down on him to begin with. i thought this was a bad idea. the more i'm hearing about it, he may have utilized this children. >> i have to tell you this, nancy, i was one

dr. jeff gardere, psychologist, author of "love prescription" and many, many other books, dr. jeff, what about it? >> your caller's absolutely right. and what we see in these sorts of divorces, people become so angry, we see the worst behaviors come out. and they don't think about the kids. they act out to the point of if the kids are around they become collateral damage. >> you're seeing shots of jon gosselin partying all over the country with one of his girlfriends, hailey glassman. what do we know about her, chris jacobs? chris joining us from "the insider." >> well, we don't know very much more than she's 22 years old and she is the girlfriend of jon gosselin, who he jumped into a relationship with soon after becoming separated from kate. >> what's her age? oh, hold on. hold on. chris, i don't know if you missed this one. but here's her mug shot. that's a little detail you might have missed -- >> we unfortunately have only seen the worst of hailey. but jon claimed to me in an interview i did exclusively for "the insider" yesterday, that he is in love with hailey and he doe

dr. jeff gardere, psychologist, author of "love prescription" and many, many other books. dr. what about it? >> your caller's absolutely right. and what we see in these sorts of divorces, people become so angry, we see the worst behaviors come out and they don't think about the kids. they act out to the point of if the kids are around they become collateral damage. >> you're seeing shots of jon gosselin partying all over the country with one of his girlfriends, hailey glassman. what do we know about her, chris jacobs? chris joining us from "the insider." >> well, we don't know very much more than she's 22 years old and she is the girlfriend of jon gosselin, who he jumped into a relationship with soon after becoming separated from kate. >> what's her age? oh, hold on. hold on. chris, i don't know if you missed this one. but here's her mug shot. that's a little detail you might have missed -- >> we unfortunately have only seen the worst of hailey. but jon claimed to me in an interview i did exclusively for "the insider" yesterday, that he is in love with hailey and he does plan

dr. jeff gardere. what about it? >> your caller is right. what we see in these sorts of divorces, people become so angry, we see the worst behaviors come out and they don't think about the kids. they act out to the point if the kids are around, they become collateral damage. >> you're seeing shots of jon gosselin partying all over the country with one of his girlfriends. what do we know about his, chris jacobs? >> we don't know much more than she's 22 years old. >> chris, here's her mug shot. that's a little detail you might have missed. >> we have only seen the worst of haley. but jon claimed to me in an interview that he is in love with haley and he does plan on staying with her. >> chris. chris, chris, chris. >> make of that what you want. >> he said that of kate, too. i don't care about that. what i care about is what's happening in court. the custody battle that is brewing and allegations of siphoning $250,000 plus hacking into bank accounts, text messages, cell phones. those are crimes. and if they're true -- >> yes. >> -- he's headed

dr. jeff gardere, psychologist and author of "love prescription." jeff, thanks for joining us. >> mike. >> you know, everybody has different coping mechanisms. is -- you know, is this -- could it be a coping mechanism for misty to just take off and just try to get it out of her mind in dealing with her stress? >> i think that's an excellent point and a great question. this is a young woman who is exhibiting self-defense mechanisms that are certainly highly inappropriate. haleigh is missing, maybe dead, god forbid. she had a very close relationship, misty did, with haleigh. so this is not the right thing for her to be doing. i think it's simply a case of if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen. she's close to a nervous breakdown. ronald's all over her case. the media's all over her case. the nancy grace show is really pushing her to get the truth. and i think she's just skipped town because she can't stand the pressure. >> you know, that's a good possibility. but you know, i still say she should be here with ronald, trying to find haleigh.

dr. jeff gardere, psychologist, author of "love prescription" and many, many other books. dr.hat about it? >> your caller's absolutely right. and what we see in these sorts of divorces, people become so angry, we see the worst behaviors come out and they don't think about the kids. they act out to the point of if the kids are around they become collateral damage. >> you're seeing shots of jon gosselin partying all over the country with one of his girlfriends, hailey glassman. what do we know about her, chris jacobs? chris joining us from "the insider." >> well, we don't know very much more than she's 22 years old and she is the girlfriend of jon gosselin, who he jumped into a relationship with soon after becoming separated from kate. >> what's her age? oh, hold on. hold on. chris, i don't know if you missed this one. but here's her mug shot. that's a little detail you might have missed -- >> we unfortunately have only seen the worst of hailey. but jon claimed to me in an interview i did exclusively for "the insider" yesterday, that he is in love with hailey and he does plan on

dr. gardere to talk to them in an unforced atmosphere where we can really learn what living with these two relatives that care about them and love them and nurture them and put their after-school sports before the balloon episode. >> that's her opinion and she's entitl entitled. do you think one of them would face harsher charges if it was discovered one of them came up with the idea of the hoax and the other went along? >> that's a legal question you guys will jump on. i believe there are real issues with richard heene. i believe he's leading all of this. i believe, it's my opinion, this may have been his idea. i think the rest of the family are really scared of this guy. i think this guy with his flash anger, you know, he's someone who might be a little bipolar, manic if you ask me, i think they fear him. >> to answer your question, though, if you're 1% involve with this hoax, you're as guilty for the entire act. that's what the law says. >> legally, psychologically if she's a battered woman emotionally and following his lead, she shouldn't be doing as much time as he would. >> all right

dr. gardere to talk to them in an unforced atmosphere where we can really learn what living with those twod where they can be with relatives that care about them and love them and nurture them and put their after-school sports before the balloon episode. >> that's her opinion and she's entitled. do you think one of them would face harsher charges if it was discovered one of them came up with the idea of the hoax and the other went along? >> that's a legal question you guys will jump on. i believe there are real issues with richard heene. i believe he's leading all of this. i believe, it's my opinion, this may have been his idea. i think the rest of the family are really scared of this guy. i think this guy with his flash anger, you know, he's someone who might be a little bipolar, manic if you ask me, i think they fear him. >> to answer your question, though, if you're 1% involve with this hoax, you're as guilty for the entire act. that's what the law says. >> legally, psychologically if she's a battered woman emotionally and following his lead, she shouldn't be doing as much time as he wo

dr. jeff gardere, psychologist and author of "love prescription."f, thanks for joining us. >> mike. >> you know, everybody has different coping mechanisms. is -- you know, is this -- could it be a coping mechanism for misty to just take off and just try to get it out of her mind in dealing with her stress? >> i think that's an excellent point and a great question. this is a young woman who is exhibiting self-defense mechanisms that are certainly highly inappropriate. haleigh is missing, maybe dead, god forbid. she had a very close relationship, misty did, with haleigh. so this is not the right thing for her to be doing. i think it's simply a case of if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen. she's close to a nervous breakdown. ronald's all over her case. the media's all over her case. the "nancy grace" show is really pushing her to get the truth. and i think she's just skipped town because she can't stand the pressure. >> you know, that's a good possibility. but you know, i still say she should be here with ronald, trying to find haleigh. i

dr. jeff gardere, psychologist and author of "love prescription."joining us. >> mike. >> you know, everybody has different coping mechanisms. is -- you know, is this -- could it be a coping mechanism for misty to just take off and just try to get it out of her mind in dealing with her stress? >> i think that's an excellent point and a great question. this is a young woman who is exhibiting self-defense mechanisms that are certainly highly inappropriate. haleigh is missing, maybe dead, god forbid. she had a very close relationship, misty did, with haleigh. so this is not the right thing for her to be doing. i think it's simply a case of if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen. she's close to a nervous breakdown. ronald's all over her case. the media's all over her case. the "nancy grace" show is really pushing her to get the truth. and i think she's just skipped town because she can't stand the pressure. >> you know, that's a good possibility. but you know, i still say she should be here with ronald, trying to find haleigh. i don't care if

dr. jeff gardere. psychologist, author of "love prescription" and many, many other books. what about it? >> your caller is right. what we see in these sorts of divorces, people become so angry, we see the worst behaviors come out and they don't think about the kids. they act out to the point if the kids are around, they become collateral damage. >> you're seeing shots of jon gosselin partying all over the country with one of his girlfriends. hailey glassman. what do we know about her, chris jacobs? chris joining us from "the insider." >> we don't know much more than she's 22 years old. she the girlfriend of jon gosselin who he jumped into a relationship with soon after becoming separated from kate. >> what's her age? oh, hold on. hold on. chris, i don't know if you missed this one, but here's her mugshot. that's a little detail you might have missed. >> we unfortunately have only seen the worst of hailey. jon claimed to me in an interview i did for "the insider" yesterday, he is in love with haley and he does plan to stay with her for the rest of his life. >> chris. chris,