dr. george james. dr. james is a psychologist with the council for relationships. he specializes in couples therapy and family therapy. thanks for being with us, dr. james. george james: thank you, rosemary. rosemary: okay, so it's not arguing, it's not cheating. researchers say the number one reason is actually a lack of commitment. and in fact, researchers have found about half of all divorces come from relatively low-conflict relationships. explain this for us. george: so i mean, commitment is a huge part, right? so, we enter into a marriage, and some people have the thought of like, "this is going to be forever, like till the day i die, i'm going to be with this person." rosemary: till death do us part. george: right, and they actually believe that, and that's part of their commitment. they see it as a long-term thing. while other people, they see it as, okay, until a situation happens, or until there's an incident, or until the kids go away to school. and when we talk about commitment, really it's one of the different aspects of commitment. for some people, the