dr. grandup, i became aware of you through your book, animals and translation, because of my interest in animal behavior, but reading your book opened my world to make me realize i was probably on the spectrum and just got diagnosed as low-enaspergers. >> what are you doing now? >> i'm a technical analyst for the united states department of energy. >> you better keep that job. super good -- better keep it. super benefits. you want get at any other job. keep your job. >> i'm a contractor. basically i check d. >> you have a good job and you need to keep it. >> my question is, going back to your book, the ten rules of social relationships, and particularly boundaries, of the ten social roles coming to social communication, which one do you consider the most pivotal one in trying to socially connect with people on a more intimate level. >> i found that i connect with people with shared interests. might be animal behavior, horses, talking about engineering stuff. that is where i get -- and i find spectrum that have a good relationship -- you may want to read this other become. these people go