dr. jim kauffman. >> dr. james well-respected and well-regarded member of this community. but to kim, step-father jim, was a very different person. >> he was very cold to me. always kept me at an arm's length. >> literally. just look at the pained body language in this video taken on kim's wedding day. >> one, two and three. there you go. >> take a close look. he steps into the scene, he smiles one time for the camera to flash, then he goes back to very taciturn demeanor. no warmth, no nothing. >> i would be talking to my mom in the dining room and he would turn the lights off and walk away. >> he would control her cash flow? >> oh, yes. sometimes calling her, where are you, who are you with? >> it seems the bloom was officially off the rose of her nearly ten-year marriage. kim recalling a lunch where her mother confides she's had enough. >> she talked about that she really needed to start aligning herself and getting herself in a good spot to be able to leave. i think that he had made it clear to her that she wasn