dr. jeff gardere. jeff, thank you so much for the information, the advice. we appreciate it.nd we're learning some new details about the suspected shooter's mother, nancy lanza. we are told that she liked to garden, she played a dice game called bunko with her girlfriends. a neighbor said the lanzas looked like a nice and normal family. police say, though, that nancy's son, the shooter, killed her in her newton home before he went on to the elementary school. and cnn's david ariesto joins me now. you had an opportunity to go to the neighborhood where not only is it center of an investigation. there are many neighbors who have told you about the family, as well. what are they telling you? >> you speak to neighbors, it paints a picture of this afluent community that is in southwestern connecticut. and it's -- this woman who often would be with her boys, they moved to the area in 1998. the -- she divorced with her husband years later. but they would often attend these parties, these dice games in which they were gardening in the back and talk about landscaping. the common joke t

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