dr. jim kaufman. >> dr. ery well-respected and well-regarded member of this community. but to kim, step-father jim was a very different person. >> he was very cold to me. always kept me at an arm's length. >> literally. just look at the pained body language in this video taken on kim's wedding day. >> one, two and three. there you go. >> take a close look. he steps into the scene, he smiles one time for the camera to flash, then he goes back to a very tas turn demeanor and steps out. no hugging, no kiss, no warmth, nothing. >> i would be talking to my mom and he would come and turn the lights out. >> he controlled her cash flow. >> oh, yes. and sometimes even calling her, who are you with, where are you? >> and just two months before april's murder, it seems the bloom was officially off the rose of her nearly ten-year marriage. kim recalling a lunch where her mother confides, she's had enough. >> she talked about that she really needed to start aligning herself and getting herself in a good spot to be able to