dr. keith ablow. thank you as always. >> all right patti. you. >> send doctor ab low your questions. e-mail them to us at friendsfirst@foxnews.com. he will tell you if you are normal or nuts. heather? >>> all right. and coming up, the time now is 54 after the top of the hour. a bible a threat to national security? why one group wants the holy book removed from military bases. >> it is your word of the day all scrambled up. can you figure out what it is? we will put it up for you. something we talked about during the show. stay with us. it is time for the good, bad and the uglyy. up first, the good. a 18 year old getting 1,000 a week for life. win for life ticket was bought last week. he plan to buy a new car and plan for college. the bad. a dad demanding military bibles be removed from all military bases and calling them a threatt to national security. and uglyy. new property maintenance laww. cthey need the product we demonstrated before. that is very expensive lawn robot. i heard a rumor. you save a lot of money if you don't mow your lawn.

dr. keith ablow. let me start with the wife.happened today is the jury wanted to hear testimony readback by mike mcqueary who is a key witness. he's the only eyewitness to an alleged a assault. he says he walked into the shower at penn state and saw sandusky attempting to or in the process of raping a young boy. that testimony was readback by the lawyers. they reenacted the testimony. afterwards his wife goes over to her husband and looks sullen. but then they shared a chuckle. help us understand. >> all this hinges of course on whether jerry sandusky is guilty or wrong live accused. however, if you presumed him to be guilty for the purposes of this experiment here, then his wife turns out to be somebody in utter denial. someone who would turn the other way through all of his antics, someone who didn't intuit his real sexuality. what would you do if you are such a woman you? would chuckle and have a laugh with your man. megyn: you need to continue the denial. >> it's just who she would be at that point. she is essentially an acc

dr. keith ablow is a psychiatrist and member of our medical a team.d about her a little bit last week and we got a ton of emails from viewer hospital had thoughts of dottie sandusky who in the minds of some is a coconspirator for failing to protect the little boys who she says her liers and making things up about her husband. >> dottie sandusky was seen joking with her husband even after a rendition of grueling testimony of what one of these boys went through. there are people with pathological denial. they have always had their heads in the sand, they grew up in dark circumstances perhaps with traumas around them. they didn't want to believe it so they reproduce the same life when they get married. to bury their heads in the sand, deny anything is happening. since women are easy marks for the likes of jerry sandusky. but there are other possibilities, too. megyn: you write in your piece on foxnews.com that's people choose this way when they marry, to find somebody who creates a similar conflict their marriage to the one they grew up with so they can

dr. keith ablow is here. possibly a problem with anger management. here is the e-mail sent to us. get the urge to knock the heck out of people i disagree with on tv. i yell at home via the television. my husband says i need anger management. what do you think? >> i think you want to be engaged with the world. if you are watching other networks in fact you would get angry because they say silly things. but, i think it is normal. you are not actually punching the tv set, you are not throwing any one to the ground you are not charlie sheen. >> keep it at that level. >> the feeling you have forgotten something. whenever i leave home i get close to my destination when i get the feeling i lock the door. i try telling myself i am not going back but it still happens. normal or not. >> here is the thing. it is crazy in a particular way it is a sign of obsessive compulsion disorders. it is a behavior you can't avoid even though you know it is pointless. these are treated relatively. here is a hint. it isn't about someone coming in your door. the safety you are seeking is only going to be fo

dr. keith ablow? >> so normal, right? hold you to account if you wear the same shirt, you know, two fridays in a row. look, the late steve jobs, the late and great steve jobs, the same jeans and turtleneck every day. he did ok, didn't he? >> he did indeed. >> normal. >> final, here's the last one. i'm a tube and reality tv. lately, i feel like i'm an unwilling star of a secret reality show and maybe i'm being taped. does the paranoia make me nuts, yes or no? >> you've come to the right place. nuts. yes. this is a real e-mail you sent in. i'm really dr. keith ablow. you're not on a reality tv show. we're all getting affected by technology but this is overboard and here's the thing, you're not getting a reality tv show on this network. just this answer. that's it. >> that's kind of interesting. you are playing into his psychosis by answering the question. >> not talking about me. >> i don't want to fuel it, though! you're right. it's dangerous territory. >> all right. write dr. keith and maybe be on our show. >> or rock him

dr. keith ablow because he went to college. >> joining us to answer your e-mails is fox news contributor low. great to see you, doctor. let's start with this first one. a curious one. my daughter, our e-mailler writes, just gave birth to a healthy son. she ruled that anyone who wants to visit needs a flu shot. i'd love to see him but i don't plan to get a shot. i understand new mama drama. is this normal? >> look, you know, is it a little aggressive? you know, a little obsessive, perhaps? sure! but look, she's mama bear. she's trying to safeguard the baby. it's a little over the top but it's normal. moms can get very possessive. now, this guy that's writing in is a little nuts. why wouldn't you give a flu shot if your daughter just gave birth. go get one, buddy. >> write a prescription and a little bit of history there and we can't get that into now. >> probably inherited it from him. he won't get the shot! >> don't yell at me. >> i'm riled up. i don't know if i can take another e-mail. >> can i ask you, alisyn? sometimes when i'm on a high balcony, i picture myself tossing my wedding rin

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dr. keith ablow will be with us. at least i think he'll be with us. and governor john kasich. dr. esident obama. it's fascinating 'cause he read all three books about president obama. >> steve: fantastic. plus tomorrow senator marco

dr. keith ablow will be with us. at least i think he'll be with us. and governor john kasich. dr. is of president obama. it's fascinating 'cause he read all three books about president obama. >> steve: fantastic. plus tomorrow senator marco rubio will be joining us. the after the show show, we'll be talk being my wife's new cookies. the andy's baking chips. >> alisyn: see you tomorrow. bill: morning, everybody. fox news alert. this might be the let's make aeal time in the "fast and furious" scandal we've been watching now for 18 months. facing mounting criticism, accusations of stonewalling, attorney general eric holder will sit down today with republican lawmakers hoping to diffuse a possible contempt of congress citation. that is the threat on the other side. welcome here to "america's newsroom." i'm bill hemmer. martha: good morning bill. i'm martha maccallum. the nation's top prosecutor faces new heat on capitol hill this morning. the big question is, will eric holder hand over enough information to get the lawmakers to call off this whole idea of holding a contempt vote agains

dr. keith ablow every week and he's back again to answer your e-mails. thanks so much for writing in.are you? >> i'm doing good. not as good as this first e-mailler. he's got an annoying, messy neighbor and says "it drives me crazy when my neighbors don't mow their messy, overgrown lawn. it makes me so angry, i didn't invite them to my neighborhood pool party. am i nuts to mind so much"? >> you know what? he likes to keep his lawn trimmed and likes to live with people who take care of their properties. the only part -- this is normal. the only part of this is a little crazy is all he does is not invite them to the barbecue. maybe a pink fence would be nice and then you offer to take it down if they'll take care of their property. see, i like an aggressive kind of response. >> right. go right back at them and see how they like it. >> absolutely. >> i like that. the law of the jungle. let's talk about this. let's talk about relationships. "when my wife doesn't get what she wants, she throws my stuff out and threatens to divorce me. she shows anger towards me by running the a.c., refusin

dr. keith be a he blow -- ablow.mail on young girls, young girls, stood up for someone who was in need and mentally challenged and the brunt of bullies or one who literally too physically exhausted to finish a race, sacrifices for her own ability to finish ahead of her, meghan vogel put this other girl first, how, what is the mentality behind that? >> what i'll say is this. there will some psychiatrists perhaps would tell you people are born this way. that your brain has a certain level of chemical messenger like serotonin and allows to be present at such moments and it is luck. i don't think so. i think people like meghan vogel are made and nurtured. in order to be these young women or that young woman you need to empathize with. parents need to show you self-sacrifice. they need to applaud when you put others first. these are learned behaviors that we're seeing and applauding now which is good for everybody to see by the way, because we shuttle straight these things and that becomes contagious. just as bad behavior