dr. keith ablow for pointing out that technology leads to violence. i know every time i see him on a television i want to kill someone. (laughter) (cheers and applause) (laughter) finally, it's almost time for the annual westminster dog show. i'm so excited i had to change the carpet several times. (laughter) unfortunately, the dog show has been a very bad boy. >> a new breed of dogs is taking over westminster dog show-- mutts. the premier u.s. canine event is allowing mixed breed competitors. they'll be included in its new agility trial. this is the first time dogs of mixed breed have been at westminster in its 138-year history. >> stephen: mutts invading westminster? folks, this is a slippery slope! today it's mutts, tomorrow it's a finish spitz whose coat goes beyond deep auburn to brown! next thing you know, a guy can marry a box turtle. (laughter) oh, it's coming! (applause) for instance, shelley here. (laughter) so -- (applause). a wag of the finger, westminster! i am just grateful that shasta, my childhood welsh springer spaniel, isn't around t

dr. keith ablow feel? he joins us live this hour.wednesday starts right now. >> hi. you're watching "fox & friends." where is my friend? where did he go? brian? >> yeah. i guess petra and sean penn are not together anymore. who is that hot south african? charlize theron. >> earlier we were talking about the story about the fight that broke out at the checkout line and you had a question. when it says 12 items or less, if you have -- >> a case of beer. >> separate items, the thing is, if you have 20 -- i think you said rc colas, each bar code scan is one item. if you had to scan it individually, let's say you have 20 of the same puddings, that's 20. >> changes everything. >> that's fascinating. >> pack of straws? >> great point. >> how many scans? >> okay, fine. one scan. >> i tell what you, you know what i'm happy about? i did a self-checkout and i didn't have to ask the old person to come over and help me out? >> the old person? >> but the people are so angry when they got to come over and unlock myself-checkout. >> brian, you're fi

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dr. keith ablow. he joins us now. dr. out there sharing their agony and their pain with others, what could be wrong with that? >> well, certainly not. there can with a lot wrong with it. and, charles, here's the problem, i don't know how you get the medium out of the message to steal a line from or marshall mccluhan, the great media scholar. because here's the thing, how can you get the fact that your patient is now, well, an entertainer of sorts, a journalist of sorts to folks she's never met out of the doctor/patient be relationship, for instance? how do you take that out of the relationship between her and her children as she starts to contemplate perhaps a limited number of days? but she's also thinking, well, what kind of a tweet might tweak people out there. maybe it'll be more emotional if i talk to my daughter and my son together. >> doctor, it's e. mac here. i want to bring you to what the former new york times editor bill keller wrote, and that's really lighting up on the internet and social media. she is saying

dr. keith ablow answers. he joinses from boston. that never says sorry. she says i've been married for 37 years and i've never heard my wife say i'm sorry once. is this normal or nuts? >> never heard your wife say that she's sorry once? that's nuts! i'm not prepared to say that's normal. why? because if you're that worried about maintaining control, what it means is that you feel vulnerable, but that it's not allowing you to be fair and reach out and to admit things. so it's time for a visit to my office and it's time for the husband to say look, i'm not sorry at all. you're crazy. >> how could she switch that? is it possible to go, to start to, i don't know, to be conciliatory and apologize for things once in a while? >> you know, it is if the husband is able to verbalize it. this is what you do in a crist's office. -- psychiatrist's office. if someone can say look, i know you're not willing to say that you're sorry, i get it. but let's say if you were able to give me the benefit of the doubt on this one, it doesn't mean that i'm g

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dr. keith ablow. good morning to you, keith. >> good morning. how are you? >> we're doing okay. our first e-mail says, i'm always late to appointments, parties, et cetera. in school i only got important assignments done at the very last minute. the joke of my family is to tell me an event starts one hour earlier than it actually does. am i nuts? >> well, not nuts, but self-consumed. >> yes. >> and self-consumed is a tougher diagnosis to treat because this person obviously you, if you're watching now at home, you think of your schedule as more important than everybody else's. >> yes. >> and believe me, it's registering with them. they're getting the message that they don't count as much as you do and it's costing you in their eyes or the eyes of business associates. so cut it out. get there on time. >> strong message. >> all right. e-mail number two, since meeting in september of 2008, my husband and i have rarely been apart. we do everything together, except work together. we realize this type of relationship is very rare. our question is, is it nuts? >> it's more than rare, it'

dr. keith ablow, great to see you.rnals, we don't know what is in them, but appear to suggest a level of alienation by the teenage gunman and he might be doing something violent. does this come as a surprise to you? >> it doesn't come as a surprise. we met in this setting before. when mental illness comes to the foreas a factor of violence. whatever is in the journal was enough to lead the police before they knew this person was responsible for the mall shooting to say he was a danger to himself and a possibility of violence. there is enough in the journals that was concerning to someone who was not a psychiatrist and said we have to get this guy. >> doctor, we have talked about this so many times. and last woke, the deadly shooting capped off a particularly deadly week in the united states. there were four other deadly shootings that involved young men, or even teenage boys. is there a mental health crisis involving teenage or 20 something-year-old men in this country? >> i think you can say that. we have had a string

dr. keith ablow every week and he's going to join us right now.n public. i get nervous if i see vans with no windows and i intentionally mismy house and drive around the neighborhood if someone is behind me, even if i know they aren't following me. is this normal or nuts? >> this is a serious one and everybody will have the answer on the tip of their tongue. it's nuts because this person is describing real paranoia, a plot against him or her. the bottom line is, i always tell people, number one, you got to get help. a situation like this, you need a psychiatrist. secondly, don't let yourself believe for a minute that those vans are your problem. i believe you. somebody wasn't doing right by you at some point in your life. maybe there was something like a plot to deprive of you of your autonomy or happiness issues but it's not the van. it's in your past. that's where your focus should be. that's what a psychiatrist does with you. >> as my wife says, paranoia will destroy you. all right. dr. keith -- >> you have a very wise wife. i'm going to let he

dr. keith ablow on that at 10:35 a.m. companies refusing to invest..m. i was watching the president's speech last night. i will act on my own two / bureaucracy. yes, that is exactly what he said. here is my take. / bureaucracy. what? this is the president who has given us the mind numbing yurok receipt of obamacare. i think of standing in line. being put on hold. being transferred to someone else. being told to try again later when the website is up and running. all of that wasted time trying to get something done. endless government bureaucracy. he says now he will / it? it is surprising, very surprising, that this president would say any such thing. he believes in government because he thinks the government can reorganize it and make it more fair. he turns to bureaucrats to make it happen. this is a bureaucratic presidency. financial reform, 10,000 bureaucrats stuck on the financial system. rules on emissions, rules on fracking, rules on education all expanded by this president. all administered by an army of bureaucrats. after the broken promises o

dr. keith ablow, is forensic psychiatrist and member of the fox news medical a-team.h, good to have you here today. >> thanks, martha. martha: i love the story where the mom describes, and i remember feeling this with my children who dot not have autism, you're always a little nervous when somebody sits down next to your toddler or child. she watched this whole basketball team, she was like, they would be fun to hang out with. a nice grandma lady, darn she will not sit next to her. and of course businessman, with the briefcase and documents and thinking oh, my gosh, she will spill something over his important papers. lo and behold this guy did not appear to be what she thought would be a great seat mate turned out to be. what do you make of it all? >> what do you make of it? you don't make out of this a moment to try to understand neurochemistry. because you will never find in the chemical mention in the brain an explanation for this. this is about human empathy. it is a miracle. this is the quality that really distinguishes human beings from other species. maybe dogs