what we do with dr. lopez isn't transition. it is pressing pause on body changes that cannot be undone. it just gives everybody a chance to go okay, whoa, what are we doing here. >> when you first went in to see dr. lopez what were you thin thinking? >> very excited, i'm a woman already. it's actually a very long process. >> you're not ready to start what we call the cross-sex hormone. >> the decision is whether to give estrogen, the female hormone to roxie and testosterone, the male hormone to evan. this cross sexual hormone is irreversible. >> what would you say to somebody who says you are not old enough to make that decision? >> i'd say well you're not the person to tell me who i am. if i'm bugging them, i'm going ha ha i'm trans, they have no right to come into my life and telling me what i need to do. that's what my parents are for. my parents are doing a great job raising me. i do my anchors i clean my room, i don't gloat but i'm a great kid. i'm getting as and bs in school and they have no right to come telling us our f