have an argument with a republican about having a fried egg or change a tire you know i mean yeah drew westen wrote a book about this mold called the political brain and he said oh i think you it seems like there's not even a little use to listen or to be flexible or to get out of a black and white simplistic kind of we have approaching things now i you know it has to some extent you're right and mark thanks for the call and making that point there i think there's a couple of pieces to this first i mentioned drew westen who wrote this book called the political brain and he found that actually liberals and conservatives not necessarily republicans and democrats because there are liberals and conservatives within both but liberals and conservatives literally have different brain wiring and then conservatives are more wired in a way that is me oriented and liberals are more wired in a way that is we oriented and those are basically the you know those the core of the two worldviews as well and then you can really amp it up john dean wrote a book or a brilliant book called conservatives without a