these are the sorts of things that move people that feel connected running out to get a box from duane reed that you know 7 before your date right is it a lovely gesture and i think we can do more yeah a clever greeting card would make somebody chuckle but imagine a thoughtful handwritten note nancy i've only got a minute so a question this profound b.b. unfair but your psychotherapy has to deal with a lot in relationships what makes a relationship work while. save the best one for the good and i'm asking for the twitter length version. wow that's a tricky one i would come back to this idea of attention and empathy when we really genuinely have empathy for our partner and are on our partner's side and willing to see our partner through their eyes through their experience when we don't see our partner as just something that to that takes care of our holes that fills our holes but we really want to know one other person and know life through their eyes and want to listen and be attentive to them author cycle therapist and relationship coach nancy collier i always love having you on the show y

credence do you see in that effort and what would that coordination effort be when you have like duane reed pharmacies, cvs assisting in this effort? >> fred, i think that the devil is in the details here. i think it's a great idea. we need to be very creative. we need testing to be as widespread and available to everyone as possible. and being able to have new points of collection where people can go, this is excellent. this is smart. but what i have not seen in the roll-out of any of these plans, not just for new york, but for, in particular, for these states that are reopening is a playbook for people. and i think that that's what's really missing here. the general public needs to understand when we have some new innovation, exactly how does it work. exactly how are they going to be able to access this? and i think these are all the things really important. you also asked me about antibody testing and the health care workers. that was the other question. and i think that this is a fantastic thing that we are moving towards really having a better understanding of how widely the virus has