she's determined to take control of have future much he cool, a village in north, east namibia in the place at home to hilde. i'm a futon. she was raised by her grandma, along with 6 other children in with her family struggling to make ends meet her grandma arranged for her to be married at just 16. it was a major as such as of my grandmother when i came for august holiday natural, my spelled my grandmother say that this a mental guy who came to me and then asked them which man and for the way. and the mom grandmother said the man came and then he asked you a asked me your hand into marriage, asked, why did you allow them into how, why did you allow the men to build a house without hearing it for me? hilda married a man 14 years older than herself, but she far from alone, according to the maybe in government, almost 20 percent of golden. that may be a forced into marriage, compared with only just of a 4 percent of boys. unsurprisingly, the marriage took a toll on her teenage life and education. limb in russell, have on me, and then he never wanted me to be friends with my friends anym