of the great examples of that might be dickens story of a christmas carol where you know old ebeneezer scrooge is living a very selfish mean life until he's visited by the angel of the future takes him into the future watches his funeral and then for the rest of story he is the terribly different man how do you deal with religion because for example the orthodox christian religion well actually they're very religious people with the they say that this life is nothing this life is actually getting ready to the real life which starts after you meet god. you must be happy that you have finally dying and. just you should be ready to meet god but most of the religion they say they teach that there's life after death yeah so how did you with that and in your in your psychotherapy when they reversed that for a moment and say that i think the theory is the mother of every single religion i mean that's one of the reasons why religion sprang up in the first place to help us deal. with this so it's not explaining the unexplainable but the fear of death because i thought that. in the midst people believe