convince us otherwise humanity ok how do we make sure that our children are not here with another edith kimani discussing the same thing i mean it's difficult the 1st thing is. do you want your children to be paying you for 2 years the question is do you have to give the money back to your family in the terms of money does it have to be 3500 rand that goes into the account every month how can you say this money can only be used for education and all we thinking about that because if we're not thinking about that we're going to end up in a situation where all children will be lecturing us to say but why am i still paying this tax so. be a little bit more assertive rethink ways of spending and stretching that money and perhaps even sending non-cash benefits how else to break from the cycle it's a tricky situation edith because yes ideally in the real world we can come back to black text by saving but the black text keeps circulating and rotating so if i don't save years if i don't save then my son should look after me when i'm older because i don't have enough money to save for my pension so can