out to to thousands millions of people the grandmothers on the benches don't wait for patients to ekta flee seek out people in the community who need help there realized how important that is after one of his patients committed suicide when i spoke to erica's mother on over the phone you know when she told me that erica taken her own life by suicide. i asked her why they hadn't come to see me at the hospital and erica his mother responded by saying they didn't have you know the $15.00 for bus fare to come to see me for arises the go go on the bench saved her life the go go help for right except a situation and find ways to cope with it successfully i'm he said on going out i've been a widow today i'm not ashamed anymore when i go to the hospital to get my h.i.v. vincent and as far as my sister's children are concerned i accept the fact that they're mentally disabled it's ok now to go goods are so successful that the concept is now being exported the 1st benches have already been set up in new york city. remarkable isn't it all that is it for now from being in south africa as always you