ellen said the daily fighting in the snyder home had escalated. his anger. >> he would push me around and he would hit me. >> he hit you how many times? one time? >> three or four. >> -- now held an executive level position at a large dealership. she was a boston 30 mechanics and making upwards of 90,000 a year. >> she put your feet to the fire. you get the job done handled on. >> so she was no pushover? >> no pushover. >> she stood up for herself? >> right. >> inside the walls of that nice home her rank was near the bottom. >> it became very condescending, controlling. where could go, who i could see. at home, mike made the rules. and she obeyed them. >> you had a significant executive job. so you're not some shrinking violet whose home cowering under her husband's direction. >> when it came to being home, and only in that door, was that shrinking -- that's how things were. he ran the show. it was two different l -- two different lives. >> detective wilson interviewed her old boss. a man named james cassell. he told detective he remembered an inc