amy was now called emiliana. lori was called crystal. it would come home to us and told us that they had changed their names and this was what they wanted to be called. i said, well, we're not going to call you that. we gave you your names and that is what we are going to call you and you might as well get used to it. they came for dinner and said well, what we came here for is we want to tell you we want to detach from you. i went what? i couldn't believe it. you are going to detach from the family? we had such a happy childhood with these children. i always my intuition was working over time and i suspected it might be a cult. >> no, i did not feel like i was in a cult. he always told us for a non-group we're an anti-cult. >> if you have this idea of this controlling, brainwashing fellow, i beg you, please. >> my family had hired a private investigator to follow me and they found that i was with this group. he went back to my family and said, oh, this is a benign group, they're not dangerous, it will be harder for you to pull her away,

amy was now called emiliana. lori was called crystal.ow named francesco. >> it would come home to us and told us that they had changed their names and this was what they wanted to be called. i said well, we're not going to call you that. we gave you your names and that is what we are going to call you, and you might as well get used to it. they came for dinner and said well, what we came here for is we want to tell you we want to detach from you. i went what? i couldn't believe it. you are going to detach from the family? we had such a happy childhood with these children. >> so my father who i was very close to, was dying. he told me that i couldn't go see him. this is so you break the bond with him. and i would make airline reservations and i would cry and cry and cry, and then i would cancel them. but it was so difficult, so difficult. >> always my intuition was working overtime. i kind of suspected it might be a cult. >> no, i did not feel like i was in a cult. he always told us for a non-group we're an anti-cult. >> my family had hir