>>we have had young people being killed by police since emmett hill, before emmett hill. it's not getting worse. it's getting filmed. >> reporter: have you experienced anything as a couple may be shocked to hear about. >>like a family refusing to sit with us at a restaurant, i guess that would qualify. you've got to hit us between the eyes with a two by four to make us see it. but there's times when folks are uncomfortable. we get that. i think especially in the current climate. >> reporter: when asked if there were any clear solutions, a timely answer made obvious by something we all share. >>i think tomorrow is the perfect opportunity to have some of these hard conv able to listen to the things that i have to offer in the same way that they're going to take and listen to what you have to offer. >> reporter: thanksgiving no doubt an opportunity to have those conversations, and this was a conversation that lasted more than an hour, this obviously just a small snippet of it. if you'd like to watch the entire conversation, we have it on our facebook page, news 5 cleveland.