nature and how there are things -- instincts and how you learn yourself or others, which goes emotionalrture, how and how you develop. >> so you're saying nature versus nurture is part of the answer here, that boys develop differently from girls? what role does society play in this? how they are raised, that is the society part. did your psychology class say it was more nature or nurture? .> it is more nurture fo >> wait a minute. your question now -- we often look at this in terms of racism and what is called white privilege. have you studied white privilege anywhere? you did? >> that is why i thought of it. you are born into that privilege. you are automatically the oppressor or the oppressed. i don't know. sometimes i feel like they are generalizing all males. when they do not always -- >> ok. let me interrupt you for a second. what we're saying here is in part, all men oppress all women because all men, whether they are three-year-old boys or 30-year-old men or 90-year-old men, benefit from a system of what we're going to call the patriarchy. men in charge of all institutions. we have se