thought i must be attracted to him and he asked me to go out again and i was like okay, feeling enthuiastic. i went home, put my keys in the door, opened the door, dropped by keys on the floor and ran to the bathroom and was in bed with the flu for a week. the sweatiness and jitteriness, i wasn't mistaking that for attraction but using those feelings to create attraction. i did date this guy for a couple months actually. but imagine how much grief i would have saved myself if i had been able to not take those feelings and construct an emotion out of them but to construct merely a physical semitism symptom such as i'm coming down with the flu. other questions? >> one thing you talked about, you know, actually seeing what is going on in the world and looking at it. i may be totally wrong about this but i don't think. i read the visual cortext is constantly bomb barded by photons and it creates templates so if you are coming out the front door you think you are looking at your street but you are looking at a generalization your brain made about the street. am i going off the deep end here? >>