strictness.ertain t,at you have is a very erec in theientated stone grass. this gives you an uncomplicated , one that just makes you reflect, think. >> what do people say to you when they have gone to the cemetery? >> it depends on the age. veterans have a different appreciation. there is a multitude of comments that we hear. veteranmes the returning for the first time, he is really with his thoughts. he does not say much initially. when you get into the burial plots, there is a sense they are going through a flashback. they are reliving it. i have had some veterans come to me. just did not want to disturb them again. but with retirement and reflection, they want to come back. to render homage. others -- a question of guilt, i feel, at times. why did i survive this? it's in the numbers. they just want to come back and fellows -- >> what about the other people? >> very inquisitive. why? .hey see the headstones they have studied history and so forth, but because of the tone -- war is a tragedy. there is no real glory. at the cemetery, that makes a lot of young