>> nanette's a pretty good friend of mine. >> reporter: and that's how they found eric naposki, who, earned, was living in a studio apartment in a "melrose place" kind of complex, just not quite as nice. naposki had played football, but his promising career as a linebacker had fizzled, too many injuries, too many hours on the bench. by the early '90s, he was trying to figure out what to do next. >> i was in seattle with the seahawks when i retired, when i left. and i drove down the coast and it was a great place to land. >> kind of nirvana for a guy like you. >> it was. >> reporter: big, good-looking ex-football player like him? it was easy to get work. and women, in southern california, like nanette. he met her while working at this gym. what did you think when you saw her? >> i thought she was a snob when i first met her. >> snob? >> snob. a little stuck up. she had the sunglasses on, you know, the expensive watch. she was a little snobby. >> reporter: well, at least she was at first. but -- so what made you friends? >> proximity. she was a fun girl. we worked out together. i'd say