under cross-examination by escoto, he explained just why it was he suspected escoto of killing his wife before you killed her, to get the life insurance. to me, that was very clear. >> judge, give me a second. i want to say something that i shouldn't. e. >> escoto lost it. >> objection. >> see all those guys. >> had mr. nerd inadvertently shown the jury the lava boiling within? that threat won a contempt of court citation from the judge. >> be quiet! >> what appeared to be near disaster for the defendant could be spun as a play to his advantage. >> i think one of the important advantages that he has here is that human connection that he's getting, standing up there. with every witness who says you're a murderer, you're this, you're that, him not backing down. he has never backed down. >> escoto, the hapless underdog, still needed to convince jurors he was not violent. especially when it came to women, wendy in particular. >> i'm going to be as gentle as i can, judge. >> he carefully questioned his former mother-in-law. he may have won points when he got her to admit that wendy had once