. >> guest: they have on have real self worth, and real self esseem. >> one of the gratest joys is a man went to prison a 19-year-old. he and another guy, and shot, and hit an arm and bled out in front of him. it's tragic. he now lives on the outside, he is successful. he has his own business. it took an investment of time and serving him and mentoring him. when he and i were first talking, i was focused on where are you, where is your head? today he calls me up and says i have an opportunity to grow the business, but i'm not sure how it's a completely different relationship. the love is not just telling somebody that you are loved, but the love is investing being consistent in serving people. >> guest: and the love is also being compassionate. the love is extending justice. it's not enough in our society to say who knocked you down? but the question becomes what kind of a world do we live in that a person gets knocked down on the side of the road. >> armstrong: it's important to tell you a story, they can be saved, but so few of them that are saved, the overwhelming majority goes ba