. >> i think i'm more like estelle gedde, sophia. their advice after you've spent years set in your ways, establish boundaries early and talk through disagreements because, contessa, there are going to be disagreements. don't put a pot over your roommate's head and hit it with a spoon. >> that's really great advice. we go into a match making situation speaking of dating. how are roommates matched up? how do they find a fit? >> it's a little bit like eharmony where silver nest goes through profiles and offers you te renter. in this case mariam interviewed somebody else, a potential roommate, before she met megan. didn't quite work out. the two women thought, no, we won't be a good match. then she met megan, they're both from the midwest, work with under privileged, at-risk people and they both like sci-fi movies and thought, why not, let's give it a shot. >> that's the show for today. i'm contessa brewer. becky will be back next week. she'll have memorial day bargains. where to find the best deals, sales and discounts over the holiday