please welcome esther perel! >> my pleasure. >> trevor: there are so many people who have seen your ted talks about relationships. there are so many people who have read your articles about sex and the way we see sex in the world and how it applies to our daily lives. when you look at everything that has happened post-harvey weinstein, what do you think we're learning about sex and power? >> sex and power are interdependent. they are interconnected. there is power in sex and power can be sexy, but there's a difference between power to which can be liberating and enhancing and affirming, and power over which can be oppressive and hurtful and demeaning. >> trevor: right. >> what we are seeing today are abuses of power. you know. that's a very different situation. when i write about infidelity i write about a consensual story. when i look at assault and harassment, i'm looking at a criminal story. >> trevor: right. >> those are very different realities. what's changed is less the accused and for the power of the acc

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