that kind of up bringing has to start with marie -- and ethyl. >> the answer is no. i did not. i found all of that stuff not only disinteresting but really stupid. just -- i didn't go to basketball games because i hated the smell in the gym in high school. i joined a sorority for a short period of time as the girls were just silly. talking about getting married whent' i'm 19 and going to liven forest hills and i saidth that s not my life. i was anxious to get on with my life. >> you had boyfriends growingin up? >> had a couple. >> what did you look for in a boyfriend. >> nothing good. actually nothing good. i remember having one very, very good looking boyfriend who was as dumb as a bucket of rocks but when i walk around with him everybodyar goes he is beautiful andgo then there was nothing to talk about so that was a learning experience. but it looked good. getting a meal that looks good on the plate but you bite into it and it was awful. i was not the prettiest girl in the class or the smartest. i was not tall enough. i was not strong enough. i could not play sports. i hated