it wasn't like this, eww, he's a letch. it wasn't like that. >> is he just incurable roman take? >> totally. >> he loves women. >> you're so right. that is totally it. does that excuse terrible parenting? no. but that's it. he's just -- that's his whole life and he doesn't understand anybody that isn't like that. because i'm not. i'm much more practical. >> curable romantic, man of many intentions, mr. mack kin row. after the break? >> sure. >>> this is a fascinating read, this book. and a lot of it is, by definition, pretty miserable. >> not really all of it. >> amid all of this stuff, the ups and downs of your life and the bad stuff, there's been lots of great stuff. in the end, it's tatum o'neal, you were brought up in hollywood royalty. you've had a pretty crazy, fun life as well. tell me about the good stuff. >> first of all, it's funny that you would ask that. right now, honestly, the nicest, best time ever. and i think one of the funnest, if you will, or happiest or lightest was making our show and kind of doing that show because it was so weird and different because we al