profession is, wherever you are in your life and your relationships, every person that you coter,very expienceants to know, was that ok? was that ok? and what i started to hear was that what people are really saying is, did you hear me? did you hear me? and did what i say mean anything to you? and so i started to listen with that mind, that intention, that validation, use baking to me, speaking to me. that is true for everybody watching or listening, that every argument or encounter, a person just wants to know, did you hear me? did you see me? david: how do you relax? oprah: the word for me now is i am content. i'm not just relaxed. i am content. i know a lot of rich people who are not happy, but i am not one of them. [laughter] i am one of the happiest rich people you are ever going to see. [laughter] [applause] david: when you are trying to get away from it all and get away from everything, you relax at one of your homes? oprah: yes. it does not take a lot for me to be happy. gayle will say to me, are you sitting in the trees with your thoughts? i can be happy with my dogs. david: thank you