it is an explo ration of identity and a look inside of one of the most important american families in all of our histories. it's called "being a rockefeller becoming myself." i'm pleased to have eileen rockefeller at this table for the first time. welcome. >> rose: thank you, charlie, it's a pleasure to be here. >> when you write a book, it's not an easy task as you found out. >> no, it's not. but i have to say that the six years of writing it were a lot shorter than the 61 years it's taken me to become myself. >> rose: (laughs) now what does that mean? 61 years is when you see yourself fully formed and this is what it's about? >> well, i hope i'll never be fully formed. but i'm evolved enough to be able to incorporate the rockefeller as well as the eileen. >> rose: is it hard to be a rock feller? >> yes. >> rose: because much is expected? >> much is expected. it's both a great opportunity and a challenge. and certainly i have received many, many benefits and along with them come the responsibilities of doing well. >> rose: you say without anxiety and desire to heal it i would not be