vanity, you mentioned something about antisocial, here we have people posting all the time, facebook, instigram, pin tryst, how does that reflect antisocial sentiments? >> sure. well, we all have a little bit of narcissism, we all have a little bit of psychopathic tendencies those are relatively normal things for people to hold, but what is interesting is how the things manifest, in online environments and through social media and it seems that people that have these traits they are using these traits to kind of seem more normal. so they are trying to behave like everybody else. it may be easy for someone that is not a gnars cyst, to attract a partner off line to make friends, but it is more hard for someone to get that done. so on a social networking site, they can him tick behavior, and try to make those same connections in a online environment. >> so jesse, is it then fair to judge somebody that you might be considering hiring or dating by say the number of selfies they post. >> i think kit be a little bit of a red flag, with that association, you might kind of scratch your head and be like