. >> black women and asian men, black women are fetish eyesed. and asian men desexualized.there is the fear of possibly being labeled as a traitor, from your own race. juliet you want to go with you, i was born and raided in , a lot of my friends are asian americans some of my best friends are asian american, just joking with that one. you are in a an interracial relationship. you have a white boyfriends. a lot of my friends see it is a a dison them and a betrayal. have you had to deal with that type of backlash from your community? >> yeah, that's one of the things that i deal with every day . >> a run a blog and it puts me in the public eye more than most people. 100 percent of the hostile messages i eve are about my love lie, my choice of partner. are about how i am a race traitor or -- i have been called horrible things because of my relationship. >> and this is primarily from those within your community, juliet . >> yeah, mostly inside the community. mostly asian-american males. i came up with a term for it called bitter asian dude. >> do you consider those bitter asia