we had to put fgm, and mgm, in context. spiritually, psychologically.contextm it about women's sexuality? yes. that women should be monogamous, and men polygamist, you see? how can women be monogamous? but women are often perpetuate fgm, it isn'tjust something that the males do. the women wanted, sometimes. slaves are a lwa ys women wanted, sometimes. slaves are always against slaves. it is the slave mentality. when you are oppressed, you press your children. especially your daughters. this is psychology. but the point is we have to understand why fgm, and male genital mutilation, is still today, it is still now. nobody speaks about why males are circumcised, nobody asks. but it is very much related to female circumcision and it is related to monogamy for women and polygyny for men. in order for women to be monogamous, they must be circumcised. to be satisfied with one man, you know? it is related to monogamy. there are other issues, you bring up monogamy, and looking at the issue of marriage, i want to raise a particular case with you thatis raise a pa