we got fiji and they dropped him again. they got him to fiji and they dropped him again.this resort 20 years ago. the doctor on board said we're going back. they took him back, ready to quit right it then and there. this didn't just come together. we had to react to whatever life gave us. >> larry: what the hardest thing is, is to change. why is that so hard? because we're prisoners of what we are? >> i don't know if we're prisoners of what we are. i think most of us meet our needs through our problems. we have a need in life for certainty. and to change requires a lot of uncertainty. we want uncertainty, too, because it creates surprise. if you ask people, do you like surprises? yeah. no, you don't. you like surprises you want. the surprises you don't want, you call painful. we have the need for having significance in our lives, something unique, something special. there's two ways to be special. take a risk, build the tallest building in town or blow everybody else's building up. that's the reason you see all these people tearing down celebrities. we like them on the wa