. -- that no great upward is what the compulsory pregnancy, abortion for what the finalg is -- thing i want to say on this is, this narrative about daddy pain is also problematic for me. on the one hand, yes, people have daddy pain. on the other hand, president obama is the first african- american president who didn't have a daddy. i'm going to say that again. he is the first black man to become president of the united black -- he didn't have a father in the household, but also has pain and angst. >> motivation. >> i'm not saying if one doesn't have a father it will motivate you that motivate you to be present. i'm saying, we want to be careful about the personal narratives. part of what president obama's the little boy-- story, not the actual man who is president -- is that if you're black daddy is missing, a white mom and white grand parents who can give you access to education and resources and opportunities bad trade-off in terms of maybe not your emotions but certainly your life outcome. us trying to create salvation in black communities by marrying off black women to black men,

. -- that no great upward is what the compulsory pregnancy, abortion for what the finalg is -- thing want to say on this is, this narrative about daddy pain is also problematic for me. on the one hand, yes, people have daddy pain. on the other hand, president obama is the first african- american president who didn't have a daddy. i'm going to say that again. he is the first black man to become president of the united black -- he didn't have a father in the household, but also has pain and angst. >> motivation. >> i'm not saying if one doesn't have a father it will motivate you that motivate you to be present. i'm saying, we want to be careful about the personal narratives. part of what president obama's the little boy-- story, not the actual man who is president -- is that if you're black daddy is missing, a white mom and white grand parents who can give you access to education and resources and opportunities bad trade-off in terms of maybe not your emotions but certainly your life outcome. us trying to create salvation in black communities by marrying off black women to black men, w